Maidless, but God is able!
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Jona will be going back for home leave for the next 3 weeks... leaving on Wed 4am!!! That means I got to drive her down to airport in the wee hours!! Gosh! No choice since the ticket is much cheaper at this kind of timing! Also she has not been home for 3 plus years!! I feel so excited for her.. She must really be excited to meet her 4 kids again!
Went shopping to buy chocolates and other stuff for her to bring home.
Ja and Jew are sleeping with her in her room now.. think Ja is starting to miss her already though he says: "Never?" Sure. no one believes him:(
Well, I am dreading the days to come.. especially now that I have gotten so used to having her around. It's really important to have a good helper!
Remember the drama 2 weeks ago on marriage regarding the pst's wife?? I have been telling everyone that the key to overcome those issues..like the "waiting" ministry of many wives, the "husbandless" time coping with babies etc is to:
1) GET A CLASS 3 DRIVING LICENSE!
2) GET A CAR (If possible, if not drive your husband's car! or just take TAXI lah!)
3) GET A GOOD HELPER!!
These were the 3 things that helped me overcome.. So ladies I know some of u have been asking me how I have been coping with my husband's kind of crazy schedule.. so tadah!! This are the keys.
Oh yes.. more...
4) HAVE A GANG OF GOOD GIRLFRIENDS THAT YOU CAN HANG AROUND WITH TO DE-STRESS...
5) HAVE MORE KIDS... so that U will be kept busy and occupied.. eeww soo CUTE!!.. (hahahaha, not to be taken seriously but its a good option!)
6) HAVE A STRAIGHT AND DIRECT TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND IF HE GETS TOO MUCH!!! (Yup I always do that.. but only if its getting out of hand.. u know... men!!)
Anyway, I have told ck that with my point no (3) unavailable for the next 3 weeks, he gotta be there lor.. or else, i think i will really beng san!
This is the time I really admire Shuying for handling her 2 kiddos SINGLE-HANDEDLY till now!!! SALUTE!!! I need that kind of anointing now!
Well, I guess i will adjust my expectations.. More importantly, enjoy being a full time mum to the 2 kiddos instead of calling "AUNTY JONA" all the time..
Pray for me..... Hope you will still see me around in the next 3 weeks..... poised... composed.... pretty (VAIN!).... Smell nice (DOUBLE VAIN!!)... Hair not too messy...and FULL OF SMILES:))))))))
These 3 Wonderful Weeks!!! Here I COME!!!
Sign off, ♥ Eve
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