Romance involves the IMPRACTICAL! Happy V Day:)
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Happy Valentine Day!!
Well, since my V day will be spent with the 2 kids as Ck will be in JB... think he decided to do the impractical yesterday instead:)
YEAH! My favourite flowers!! White Lilies...... I must say that being such a practical person... the flowers are BEAUTIFUL~~!
Thank You BB!
However, can someone tell me what to do with the flowers after that moment???
I don like dried up flowers.. SO i have decided to let the flowers BLOOM instead and they are now sitting in my living room. My helper happily placed them in the vase and when Ja saw them, he said," Wow! Beeeauutiful!!!" (U know.. with his dramtic tone??)
Besides letting them bloom, another usage is to parade in office and "show off"... also not forgetting taking pictures too!:)
Had cg on Fri, it's interesting to hear how my very adult members who have been married for 20 to 30 years share their romances and park tor days... We also did a test to discover our primary and secondary love languages and got the married couples to guess what their spouses love languages are before the answers were revealed...
(hehehe) I realised a few things though...
No matter how confident they were, most of the husbands did not managed to state their wives' primary love languages correctly!!! Reasons??? WOMEN is spelled as CHANGE!! (hehehe)
There was a couple where the husband said CONFIDENTLY:
" Well, her primary language is GIFTS!!"
And the wife said: " NoOOOO!! It's now words of affirmation!!"
Husband: "Huh!!??When did you CHANGE to that??"
(LOL)
Also, I realised that the reason why there are descrepancies is cos when any of the 5love languages is being "starved", we will start to "hunger" for that aspect to be filled! As simple as that!
So couples out there, don assume that your spouses love languages always stay constant... take time to observe and see which areas are "starving" and start "feeding" them NOW!
What's my LOVE LANGUAGE???
(Hee) I was shocked at the results too!!
Here goes...
Present
#1: Quality TIme
#2: Physical Touch
#3: Words of Affirmation/ Acts of Service
#4: Gifts
Past
#1: Quality Time
#2: Acts of Service/Gifts
#3: Words of Affirmtation
#4: Physical Touch
Can you imagine that??!! Gifts is at the last one! But hey! I still welcome gifts ok... dont starve me in that!
And it's funny cos when I got Ck to guess, he got the 2nd one wrong! He thought it's Acts of service... and that was correct in the past.. but (hee) you all know which areas I am being starved right now!! (sob! sob!)
What's your dominant love language?
(if you would like a copy of the test, do approach me...:)
Happy Valentine's Day!!! Enjoy!!!
Sign off, ♥ Eve
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